9 Signs To Look For In A Cheating Spouse



No one wants to think that maybe they are being cheated on until tell tale signs appear.  Like they say ‘if you feel that he is cheating then definitely he is’ not until you have solid facts though your plea maybe regarded as nonsense. Below are some of the things cheating spouses’ exhibit. Please note that they are not a hundred percent proof that your partner is cheating but signs that he/she might be cheating.

  • Increase or decrease in intimacy

Cheaters will show changes in their sex life. They will either demand more sex or give away many reasons not to have it with you. They come up with new styles or weird requests they did not have before.

  • New behaviour while at home

They will appear distant and uninterested in most activities at home. They might begin acting harshly and often criticizing you. Will start talking in low tones when on phone or tend to pick calls at a distance.

  • Change in dressing style

All of a sudden they start dressing up too high for an errand or a visit to the grocery as different from the usual. They start becoming attentive to fashion watch, color matching and fitted clotting. For men, they even start buying their own underwear! They wear heavy cologne and very particular to cleanness.

  • Work excuses

They will give orders to when you are supposed to call them in their office. Most of the time their phones are on voicemail and take longer time to be answered. They do not entertain surprise visits to their offices since they might be away anyway. Working late becomes their habit. Same with one week seminars and retreats.

  • Denied access

Sophisticated passwords will be present in all their gadgets and computers. Upon request, they will prefer to put the passwords themselves than give you to do so.

  • Financial strain

Men are victims of this. There will be financial drain as a result of extra mileage covered with the other partner, extra food, clothing, rent, etc. to pay for. As a result, he will start complaining about ‘bills have gone high.’

  • Divided attention

A cheating spouse will start going out for long or delay returning home. When he/she is at home, devices like phone and computer take most of his/her time. This he/she does trying to communicate with the other person via social media.

  • Physical marks

You will probably find a change inclination of a car seat, different cologne on his shirt, lipstick mark and receipts for goods not delivered to you, missing wedding ring and the list is endless. There would be at least one of the mentioned items if you closely watch out.

  • Eye contact

It’s difficult for someone cheating to tell the truth while looking straight in the eye. They will avoid eye contact when you ask them certain direct questions like ‘do you still love me?’


“In the end you should always do the right thing even if it's hard.” ~ Nicholas Sparks

A Selection of Quotes About Cheating

“Searching through Monster.com while on the clock feels like being on Tinder while still married.”  ~ Crystal Woods, Write like no one is reading 2

“A woman who would steal your love when your love was really all you had to give was not much of a woman.”  ~ Stephen King, Four Past Midnight

“This woman enabled her husband to cheat, and she wasn’t doing either one of them any favors. Instead of leaving him, she would take him home, scold him, and then carry on with business as usual. Inside though, she would be hurting.No woman could love a cheater and not pay the price for it.”

~ Rose Wynters, Delicate Devastation

“In the end you should always do the right thing even if it’s hard.”

~ Nicholas Sparks, The Last Song


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