6 Qualities to Make You the Most Confident One in the Room
Are you comfortable in your own skin or do you squirm when you see large crowds of people? People that live life to the fullest, without a care in the world are the most happiest and confident in their skin.
On the opposite, people that fear judgment lack confidence and self-esteem. If you had a choice, which one would you want to be. Most people will pick the first option. However, those same people are more like the second option. You can adopt these carefree traits to become the most confident one in the room:
1. Analyze, Divide, Eliminate
Treat everyone with respect, but keep an eye out for people that may be wolf in sheep’s clothing. The moment you feel like you are not getting the same respect back, cut them out from your life. You don’t want to be surrounded by people that take advantage of you, lie to you, cheat you, and talk behind you, amongst other vile acts.
2. Keep Your Eyes to Yourself
Confident people don’t need to be the center of attention at a party, as their confident personality will do that for them anyways. Don’t try to become someone that you are not. You need to be your own person and let your individuality shine through. Never lie to impress people or try to fit in with a crowd you will see occasionally.
3. Be Comfortable in Your Own Body
You talk differently, do something differently, or dress differently than others isn’t something you should be ashamed about. Instead, you should proudly parade around your sense of style along with your quirky attitude on display for people to get a look at the real you. You are not a porcelain doll that you would easily break, but you are tougher than that, you are bold.
4. Pave the Way
Confident people made great speakers, as they can speak flawlessly on subjects others may not have the confidence to tackle. They are not afraid to say what’s on their mind and take criticism well. They are quick to attract an audience, as people want to hear what they have to say. Often, they find themselves at the ahead of the pack, leading them to attain a mutual goal.
5. They Are Wanted
Their view on life is positive, often filled with optimism. Even though in their heart, they know that some may find their bold and sometimes, outrageous behavior peculiar, they will take joy in knowing that they have managed to set themselves apart from all the clones. People may label them as an outcast, but they will never call themselves that.
6. They Welcome Competition
Even though confident people are highly competitive, they never shun competition away, they welcome it with open arms. For them, confidence is the key to pair two likeminded individuals together to come up with strategies and ideas.
If you haven’t been feeling confident lately, we suggest you try to loosen up a little to embrace your inner-confidence.
A Selection of Confidence Quotes
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”
~ Bernard M. Baruch
“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
~ Eleanor Roosevelt, This is My Story
“If ever there is tomorrow when we’re not together… there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we’re apart… I’ll always be with you.” ~ A.A. Milne
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