The Wooden Bowl

Daily Quote:-
"But tell me: how did gold get to be the highest value? Because it is uncommon and useless and gleaming and gentle in its brilliance; it always gives itself. Only as an image of the highest virtue did gold get to be the highest value. The giver's glance gleams like gold. A golden brilliance concludes peace between the moon and the sun. Uncommon is the highest virtue and useless, it is gleaming and gentle in its brilliance: a gift-giving virtue is the highest virtue. ~Friedrich Nietzsche
A GIFT to you.....
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, a year from now.
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year old grandson.
The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered.
The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.
The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. "We must do something about father," said the son. "I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor."
So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner.
There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl!
When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometime he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.
Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence. One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor.
He asked the child sweetly, "What are you making?"
Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up." The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
On a positive note.
I've learned that:- no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that:- you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things: a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that:- regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.
I've learned that:- making a "living" is not the same thing as making a "life.."
I've learned that:- life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that:- you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt
on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back.
I've learned that:- if you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you.
I've learned that:- whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that:- even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that:- every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
I've learned that:- human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that:- I still have a lot to learn!
I've learned that:- should pass this on to everyone you care about. I just did.
Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
Just walk beside me and be my friend.
This Blog is to help in your life and lead to Success for you.
Richard Bejah :0)
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Thanks for sharing your work and inspiring others. I believe that when we share with an open heart we create a ripple effect transforming new experiences for us and the world! It is a pleasure to meet you here on Twitter.
Best to you,
Joy Malumphy
JOY DOCTOR
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This story is so true to life! And poignant and beautiful. We all need to think about this deeply and take it to heart to remind us how to treat others in our daily walk on this earth! Wonderful Rich! Thank you for sharing, Libby
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This is a powerful & moving blog entry. Thank you so very much 4 caring enough to share so much wisdom!
Only one point here: I wanted to add, indeed life may give a second chance 'sometimes', but GOD always has a plan C&D&E and on and on and on. KNOW THIS! It is a fact.
My sense is, when in the middle of the storm, many may think it is over, they listen to the false voice (sometimes called the accuser) and believe it and then in fact, their life follows their core beliefs. Observers then say, 'no second chances'. In a town where that is the prevailing belief, in fact though there can be, it is never allowed to manifest! Much like the often cited example of sun behind the clouds or at night, always giving light & warmth but shielded from view.
I know this is an authentic and a truly inspired piece of writing because you say "I still have a lot to learn" Ugh! brings tears to my eyes! If only! You R a magnificent being and we are blessed 2 take part in this.
May God continue to bless you, keep his light shining brightly upon you, ahead of you, surrounding you! May life's engagements, large and small, continue to work themselves out 4 you with effortless ease, and always perfectly on mark.
May His peace b with you always. BE well.
P.S. Love Mr. Pacino's work. This was no exception. Speech super motivating 4 athletes but generally, I tend to believe surrender works magic vs. "clawing" and struggle. Latter will surely work but difficult to maintain long term -- can't keep clawing without wearing out fingernails & injuring finger.
Surrender is when He does the work and you get out of the way. You are tireless and have 'good luck' all the time, because it is not You doing the work. Work is getting done through you. Ha!
So, which would you choose? If in doubt, try it. You'll be amazed. Some day, I'll write about this, but not just yet. (Feeling presence of something greater --spirit rising in me-- this very moment...forgive the digression!)
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Nice blog, You are relly becoming my prefered soruce of dailiy inspiration. i'll be coming back!!
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like a Trojan,very ,interesting.
wooden flooring
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